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 Hello! How suiting is this statement for life.! Some sit in judgement of us and we sit in judgement of others, and then GOD sits in judgment of all.  The question becomes, who are we judge the decisions of others, and put our 2 cents into the bucket of what they can and cannot do? 

This post is about making life decisions that are based on your choices, your sanity and your dreams. Do not allow others to sit in judgement of the decisions you are making for your mental well being, do not allow others to say, "WHY YOU DOING THAT", WHAT IS REASON FOR THIS DECISION", if the choice does not affect them, in anyway, then by all means, take the step and move on! 

Remember you are make the decision that is best for you and for your family, and ultimately you will live with the choice you chose. Trust yourself , and your instincts they have not steered you wrong! 

I am learning this life lesson the hard way once again, but will come out on top and the find the path of least resistant and find my joy and happiness once again, and will find laughter to help me see the joy in life. 

I hope you find peace and joy in the life making decision you have chosen for today! 

Go forth and slay the day. 

till next time! 

cher- 

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